I am currently reading ‘Raising girls’ by Gisela
Preuschoff in which she mentions the inequalities that still exist in this
supposed enlightened 21st century. Apparently in 2003, only 8.8% of executive
management positions in Australia were held by women. Granted this statistic is
nearly 10 years old, but I can not see it having moved anywhere near the 50% mark
in that time.
I started thinking about what sort of future lay
ahead for the short one…what ambitions she may strive to achieve…what
aspirations, we as parents, hold for her…what qualities, we as a family, hope
to impart and nurture.
I would hope that the short one continues to
blossom into an independent, caring, nurturing, confident and intelligent young
lady. I would hope that she has life goals and strives to meet them. I would
hope that she embraces her strengths, as well as her weaknesses. I would hope
that she celebrates a life of love, security and resilience. I would hope that she will be happy.
With this in mind, I asked the short one today
the age-old question, ‘What would you like to be when you grow up?’
There was a distinct pause in the conversation,
so I gently prompted by suggesting a raft of potential career choices, being
ever so careful not to select only female stereotypical professions…a firefighter,
a police officer, a doctor, a nurse, a teacher, a computer fixer, a mechanic…
Clearly, I was way off track. Each suggestion was
met with a very definitive, ‘No.’
What does she want to be when she grows up…
A butterfly, of course!